I have spent considerable time on forums reading about the AFM, 6 speed transmissions, etc. PLUS, I am an owner of a 2011-Silverado Crew Cab w/the 5.3. For whatever it's worth here are my observations-
The 6 speed transmission is at best "unrefined". There have been solenoids replaced, torque converters replaced, seals replaced, all to have the problem to return shortly there after.
The general consensus among many of us is that it's the software in the TCM. I also believe (and I hope I am wrong) is no fix will be coming from GM due to the sheer numbers involved and it's not a safety issue.
When I first had my truck the switch to 8cyl. to 4cyl. was not noticeable. Now at 20,000ish miles it is somewhat noticeable.
For those of you interested, I am currently pulling a 28 foot travel trailer on a tour of the country. The truck is performing fine (given the above parameters). I have started from Utah, and traveled through Nevada, Arizona, New Mexico, Texas, and currently we are in Lafayette,LA. The wife and I have been out a month.
The transmission actually seems to perform better with a load behind it.