Sorry about the delay, had a surprisingly busy week this week. Thanks for the inputs. If I ever get the mileage to recover (right now 8-10 city, 10-14 highway, worse than even my 350 k15 Suburban) I might want more aggressive tread to off-road in western states, but here in Iowa other than the occasional crappy county park road, even with campgrounds it's all paved or fairly packed gravel roads (except spring thaw lol). We rarely even see 8" of snow nowadays here, usually 4" or less. So I don't -need- all terrain, tho they can be nice.
I'm not so concerned with looks as I am performance - reasonable traction year round, even wear and resistance to road hazards, being quiet and better mileage would be a nice perk (wife's car is a '17 Impala, very quiet and V8 ish till you stomp on it and the 4 cylinder noise comes through). I've had expensive tires that were a let down and economy/midrange that performed fairly well, and it's nice to know what options there are.
Coopers have been okay, nothing special, Kumhos handled well with okay traction but wear quickly. Every Goodyear or Kelly I've had has worn the shoulders rapidly or the tread and sidewall separated. Firestones - cheap set wore in record time and were squirmy, the Firehawks on the Imp got mediocre traction and good handling but were very loud while the Contitracs that replaced them get great traction and are quiet, smooth, road hugging - but for trucks? I'm not sure what off brand sport truck tire my Dakota had, but with 2wd it could get through snow better than the Firehawks. The Generals I've had are kinda middle of the road on all counts but lasted well, and I had an economy truck tire version on my 2wd extended cab '92 S-10, it still made it home through a 12" wet snowstorm, suppose that's good enough lol.
But now that we have money enough to be picky I might as well spend for something good as we drive this truck far more that any of the previous ones

. I had heard the highways had much improved, and if they are capable enough may be a better choice for us.