The whole point of this post was to get everyone's opinions. Originally I wanted to go with AGM bc I tend to leave things charging overnight, obviously with the truck parked/engine off & I plan on getting some auxiliary lights as well as a powered subwoofer & some good speekers, figured it would lessen the strain on the alternator some.. I was always under the impression that u could put an AGM in a non-AGM car (as an upgrade) just not a regular battery in an AGM spec. car.. I'm leaning towards either getting a Duralast from AutoZone or a Dekka
First step- measure the Current draw while it's not running. If you do a lot of short trips, find out how much the battery is depleted after driving- if you do mostly longer drive times, you shouldn't need to charge it every night, even if you don't drive it for several days but again, a current draw test will give you an idea of how long it can sit before it needs charging. WRT over-charging, a smart outlet can be scheduled to turn on and off, so no battery needs to be over-charged.
If you want to use equipment that draws more than the stock alternator can provide, it will be better to have yours upgraded or to buy a heavier-duty part than to treat it like a farm animal- they can and do fail from excessive draw, the bearings fail and they can freeze, leading to other serious problems- not good on a long drive in the middle of nowhere.
I would contact an auto electric rebuilder and ask about what they recommend for the type of battery and whether an AGM will put additional strain on the alternator- a good shop will have someone who knows.